亲情的可贵[5月10日专题信息]

专题信息｜亲情的可贵

5月10日

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朱志山牧师

经文: 玛 2:15-17；3:1

课题: 家庭, 婚姻与恋爱, 儿女/后代, 爱, 价值观,

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亲情是一个极其微妙的关系。当我们与一个人有亲情关系时，我们晓得那关系是不能用任何的交易来换取的。那关系也是已经在对与错之上了。哪怕我们的亲人做错，我们也是自然会站在他这边。即便我们的亲人伤害我们，我们只会感到难过或失望，但却无法断绝关系，更不能以牙还牙。试问若我们与至亲的亲属有过节，我们能用法律来解决那纠纷吗？不但不能，若是我们下重手，我们更是伤害自己。其实，这都是我们的人性告诉我们的。亲情关系本身就有一种分不开，且用物质买不到，道理说不清的情分在里面。因此，你是不是一个幸福的人，不在于你有多少成就与朋友，乃在与你能否与你至亲的亲人相爱相亲。即便你为人师表，是众人的老师，但若你与你至亲的家人是冷漠无情的，你绝对不能成为众人的榜样，更不能成为众人的羡慕。因为人都知道亲情的可贵。但是在罪恶的各种后果蔓延到全世界时，国攻打国，民攻打民，家人之间也沦落到无亲情的光景。尤其，我们不难看到在这快速与繁华的社会里，人都将关注放在短暂的物质与成功。人即便能说出很多道德伦理来美化自己，但他们的心其实是越来越不认识亲情的价值。从某个角度来讲，这世界其实变得更自私、更愚昧。有些人就是专重视家人以外的关系，将亲情关系当做理所当然的。他没想到，当他成功了，谁真正为他开心？当他失败了，谁终究会留在他身边？当他尽心尽力养出了一个品学兼优的孩子，以此为自豪，但他没问当这孩子长大之后，这孩子是否会理解在品学之上的亲情关系吗？他可能在朋友和同事当中很受欢迎，但他能否成为家人的祝福呢？这似乎是现代人很大的一个盲点。因此，现代人懂得多，但惧怕更多。这是因为他们心中的爱减少了，而人的爱多少就从他与最亲之人的关系显露出来。在二十世纪快要结束时，有一个心理学家说人类面对其中最大的危机可能不是饥荒、核弹或是病毒，乃是对爱的观念变质了。渐渐的，一般男女看婚姻已经不是长久的忠心与承诺，乃带着有一种交易性的关系。人不再学习怎么爱自己所嫁娶的另一半，乃是以他有没有成就、才华或某种条件来对待他。孩子开始不尊重父母的权威，父母也自然的要低声下气对孩子说话，甚至要呵护孩子来让他听劝。确实，亲情在这时代进入了一种变质的形态，亲情的角色也大大的被削弱。特别，当我们看见人开始崇高积极心理学，无止尽地提倡人权与人伦道德，追寻一种自我实现的意义，甚至开始以这一切来取代圣经的原则，我们就开始看见男人、女人、父母、孩子都逐渐失去他们的位子。但是，我们要晓得神创造亲情的本意从未因时代不同而改变。神为人创造的亲情仍然存在，神为亲情关系里定的原则也仍然是通往家庭幸福的道路。人是生在亲情里，也需要从亲情关系里得着满足。在他欠缺之处，他也需要亲情关系给予他的力量，才能不断的前进。但在这爱心减少，且无亲情的时代，很多人似乎对淡薄的亲情关系爱莫能助。其实在此绝无他法，我们仍旧要回到神的真理来寻求答案。因为一切出自神的道。倘若人离开真理，他自然离开亲情，也无法对抗那削弱亲情的大环境。有时，我们在与家人相处中遇到很多摩擦，特别是当配偶不理解我们，儿女不听从我们，那时可能会感到亲情关系是一种拖累。其实，就在那时候，我们不是选择放弃，乃更是要用神的真理去修复或扶助那亲情关系。过后，那关系才能再次成为我们极大的满足与力量。

Kinship is a very amazing relationship. When we have kinship with another person, we know that the relationship cannot be exchanged with anything. That relationship is also above right and wrong. Even if our family member has done wrong, we will naturally stand on his side. Even if our family member hurts us, we will only feel sad or disappointed but can never cut off ties with him, and we cannot repay tooth for a tooth. If we have grudges against our closest kin, can we use the law to resolve that conflict? We not only cannot do that, but if we are too harsh with them, we will hurt ourselves more. In fact, these are all what our human nature tells us. Kinship itself is inseparable, and cannot be bought with material possessions, nor can it be explained by reason. Therefore, whether you are a blissful person is not about how accomplished you are or how many friends you have, but it is about whether you and your closest family members love one another. Even if you are a role model and teacher of everyone, if you and your closest family members are cold toward each other, then you certainly cannot be the example for everyone, and will not become the envy of all people. Because everyone knows the worth of kinship. However, as all kinds of consequences of sin spread to the whole world, nation rises against nation, kingdom against kingdom, and families also fall into a state without love. In particular, it is not hard for us to see that in this fast-paced and prosperous society, people place their attention on temporal materials and success. Even though humans can beautify themselves by talking about morals and ethics, their hearts actually understand the value of kinship less. From a certain angle, this world is in fact becoming more selfish and more foolish. Some people only value the relationships outside of the family but take kinship for granted. They do not reflect that when they are successful, who will be truly happy for them? When they fail, who will still stay by their side? When they put in their best to raise a child who excels in all areas, they take pride in that, but they never question that after this child grows up, will he still understand that more important than his learning and character is kinship? He may be very popular among his friends and colleagues, but can he be the blessing to his family members? This seems to be a huge blind spot to the modern people. Therefore, the modern people know a lot, yet they fear even more. This is because the love in their hearts has diminished, and how much a person’s love is will be revealed in his relationship with his closest family members. As the 21st century is about to end, a psychologist said that one of the greatest crises that mankind face may not be famine, nuclear weapons or viruses, but their problem is, their idea of love has been twisted. Gradually, the ordinary men and women no longer view marriage as a long-term fidelity and commitment, but see it as a transactional relationship. People no longer learn how to love the spouse they marry, but they treat their spouse based on whether they have achievements, talents or certain qualities. Children start to disrespect the authority of parents, parents also naturally have to speak meekly to their children, even having to coax the children into obeying them. Indeed, family relationship in this era has taken a distorted form, the role of kinship has also been greatly weakened. In particular, when we see that people start to exalt positive psychology, endlessly advocating human rights and morals, pursuing a kind of meaning in self-actualization, even starting to use all these to replace the principles of the Bible, then we will start to see men, women, parents, children all gradually lose their positions. However, we must know that God’s original intent in creating kinship has never changed regardless of times. The kinship which God created for mankind still remains, the principles God set for kinship are still the paths to family bliss. Man is born into kinship and needs to be satisfied by kinship. In his areas of lack, he also needs the strength from family relationship, then he can keep moving on. However, in this era when love diminishes and is lacking, many people seem to be helpless about weakened family relationship. Actually, there is no other solution to this but we must return to God’s truth to seek answers. Because everything comes from God’s word. If a person departs from the truth, he will naturally be separated from kinship and cannot resist the macro environment which weakens family relationship. Sometimes, we encounter many conflicts when living with family members, especially when our spouse does not understand us, children do not obey us, at that moment we may feel that family relationship is a form of burden. In fact, it is at that very moment that we should not choose to give up, but should all the more use God’s truth to mend or sustain that family relationship. After that, the relationship can become our great satisfaction and strength once again.

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