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之十九: 夫妇两人在基督里自然的相爱
9月22日
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经文: 弗5:21-33
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家庭,
婚姻与恋爱,
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夫妇之道,
夫妇得医,
丈夫的牺牲,
妻子的顺服,
蒙应允的婚姻,
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今天,可能人与人的关系最大的矛盾不是国攻打国,民攻打民,乃是最自然能相爱的关系已经变质,成为不自然,要用力用心来相爱。所以,当人越多以各种的方法与辅导要处理夫妇关系的问题越是造成更大的矛盾。其实,我们并不需要看这残酷的社会才发觉这世界没有爱,乃是看一对夫妇对彼此的心态就知道爱的欠缺与变质了。确实的说,夫妇相爱是这么简单的事,但人的属灵问题却造成两人「不能」相爱,「不懂得」相爱,「要想办法」相爱。事实上,夫妇之间的爱(1)本为自然的;(2)本为帮补的;(3)本为祝福万民的。这三样夫妇之道都显在基督与教会之间的爱。首先,我们先要明白爱本身是自然的(不是用力爱的),是心里头自愿的感动,乃爱的源头(圣灵)赐下,使夫妇能够自然的喜悦、尊重、保护、满足彼此。这里头不是以条件或惧怕来推动。所以,当一对夫妇在主里相爱时,会发现他们对彼此的爱是越来越没有理由的,那爱不是出自与某些的好感或因素,乃是来自圣灵所赐的心。之后,我们要晓得圣灵是活的,并不是让两人留在一种喜悦彼此的感觉而已,乃是带来心里的行为。比如说,在一天繁忙的生活中,两人相处时有实际的挑战,但圣灵是一直将“帮补”彼此的心态赐给彼此。甚至是对方比较软弱或糊涂时,圣灵使我拥有那设身处地、理解、保护、帮助配偶的心态。所以,夫妇之间的爱是从他们的默契能看出来。在圣灵的引导之下,夫妇在爱里相待,叫彼此能够感触到,也实际的受帮补。这种的相爱确实荣耀神,叫天使看见,触动他们动工,将这爱的优美与实际的见证传于万民,叫许多人在一个没有爱与残酷的世界里因一对夫妇的相爱得见基督的爱。所以,总结来说,夫妇在基督的恩爱并不是世界爱情故事的完美理想,乃是先有圣灵赐下基督的爱给彼此,然后按着真理(丈夫舍己,妻子顺服)在两人心中动工,带领他们的生活,所以两人必要认识与察觉圣灵的帮助。在此当先接受神的话为真理,然后认识圣灵的帮助,不要因婚姻目前的问题抗拒这方面的真理,然后一直留在气馁里。
Today, the greatest conflict between men is probably not nation rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. Rather, it’s because the love relationship that ought to be natural has deteriorated and become unnatural and strenuous. Therefore, when a man uses myriad methods and counseling to resolve spousal relationship, he ends up in greater ironies. Actually, we do not need to look at the inhumane society to realize that love does not exist in this world, but through the attitudes that a couple has for one another, we realize the deficiency and metamorphosis of love. Indeed, loving one another is easy, but due to man’s spiritual problem, it causes a couple [unable] to love another, [do not know how to] love one another and [seek ways] to love one another. In actual fact, the love between a couple is meant to be (1) natural; (2) complementary; (3) a source of blessing. These three ways of spousal relationship are revealed through the love between Christ and His church. Firstly, we need to first understand that love itself is natural (not by force), a voluntary conviction received in the heart and it’s conferred by the source of love (Holy Spirit). This enables a couple to love, respect, protect and satisfy one another naturally. Love itself is not driven by conditions and fear. Therefore, when a couple loves one another in Christ, they will increasingly discover that love does not require any reasons and this love stems from the heart given by the Holy Spirit and not from fondness and any factors. Hence, we must know that the Holy Spirit is alive, it will not let a couple remain in infatuation, but rather it brings about actions within the heart. For example, in a busy day, when a married couple faces challenges in their spousal living, Holy Spirit continuously gives both a heart of “helping one another”. Even in times when the other party is weak and foolish, Holy Spirit gives me a heart to ‘put myself in his/her shoes’, to understand, protect and help my spouse. The love between a husband and his wife can be seen through their chemistry. Under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, when a married couple loves one another, they mutually will be moved and receive help from one another. Such love will indeed glorify God, be seen by the angels and move them to work in bringing the beauty of this love and relevant testimony to all people that through this married couple, many will see the love of Christ in this cruel world. Therefore, in conclusion, the conjugal love between a husband and wife in Christ is not the perfect ideals depicted in a fairytale, but rather Holy Spirit first bestowed Christ love upon the couple, convicts them according to the truth (husbands give themselves up, wives submit to their husbands) and guide their spousal living. Therefore, both of them must definitely understand and sense the help from the Holy Spirit. We must now first receive the word of God as the truth and thereafter understand the help from the Holy Spirit. Do not be discouraged and resist the truth in this area because of your marital problems today.
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